Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

The Inscure Person

“The insecure person is fearful and prone to jealousy, clinging, possessiveness, and attachment in relationships, an approach that always brings frustration. The purpose of these feelings is to bind and tightly possess the other, to achieve security by preventing loss...

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Should I Leave This Relationship?

“We have been together for 10 years and we are stuck having the same argument over and over. We love each other, we are just building resentments over time and it seems like I’m getting the validation I need from the Therapist, but nothing is changing. Is there any...

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Is Your Partner Your Parent?

“I think I married my mother/father”. If only I had a nickel for every time I heard this in my DM’s from people stuck in a “should I stay or go?” situation in their relationships. I talk to so many people who swear they don’t want to become like their parents, or they...

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What It Truly Takes To Change

I just got off a call with a woman who was stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere. She wanted help. The truth? She wanted MY help to change HIM. Respectfully, that’s not how it works. Everyone wants change,but what I’ve discovered helping people overcome...

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A Warning To Men

After working with hundreds of women, hearing their stories, and working with men who’s wives have had enough…   I felt inspired to share this message as a public service announcement of the 4 Trauma Responses we are responsible for learning how to regulate if we are...

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What Love, Sxx, and Money Have in Common

This one made me extremely uncomfortable to share.   Here I was, in the middle of one of the most fun and effortless interviews I’ve ever done with my friend, the host of the Expansive CEO podcast, Hannah Chapman,and then I asked for her consent to go into a topic...

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This One Will Be A Spicy One

Masterclass #2: UNPACKING and PREVENTING INFIDELITY Is the relationship Salvageable? Understanding the Impact of Polarity and Our Sexual Shadows In the raw aftermath of infidelity, a cloud of confusion, pain, and mistrust hangs heavy. The question at the forefront of...

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