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Dr. Nima

Stop Blaming Yourself—Fix This Instead

If you’re having relationship challenges, see if this hits close to home: You've been in therapy for months, maybe years, trying to fix relationships that keep falling into the same patterns. You understand your dynamics. You can articulate your childhood wounds and...

Why Successful People Feel Dead Inside (And What Actually Helps)

If you’ve ever went to a therapist to talk about your problems,see if this resonates: You're sitting in your counsellor/therapist’s office,week after week, talking through the same issues. Your relationship problems.Your childhood patterns.Your communication...

Feeling Helpless When Your Partner Shuts Down

When you’re thinking of the way you do conflict in a relationship,see if this resonates: Your partner comes home from a stressful day.They're quiet.Distant. When you try to connect,they give you one-word answers or just stare blankly. You ask what's wrong. "Nothing,"...

How To Help a Struggling Child

If you’re a parent with a struggling child, this is for you. See if you can relate: Your child is acting out again. Maybe it's meltdowns. Maybe it's defiance. Maybe it's withdrawal. Maybe they're anxious, depressed, or just... different than other kids. Your first...

The Invisible Script Running Your Relationship (Betrayal)

If you read my last content piece, you’ll remember that consult I mentioned yesterday– “Sophia”. After she shared her story of repeated betrayal, I asked her a question that caused a shift in her system: "What happened when you were little, the first time someone who...

Betrayal: The Pattern You Can’t See

I’m going to spend the next couple weeks of contenttalking more about betrayal, because I heard something last month that stopped me in my tracks.I was consulting with someone—let's call her Sophia. Brilliant woman. Runs a 7-figure business. Highly respected in her...

Your Body Remembers Every Argument That Never Got Resolved

I watched a client break down in tears yesterday during our session. She's a successful executive, runs a team of 40 people, has multiple degrees... and still freezes like a deer in headlights when her partner raises his voice even slightly. "I know it's ridiculous,"...

Are You Making This Error Unintentionally?

I was working with a client yesterday who kept saying she just wanted to "be happy." Another intention from someone who attended my last Overview Experience event:“I want to choose myself without feeling guilty”.  Sounds reasonable enough to the untrained eye. That's...