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Dr. Nima

How To Break Relationship Disappointment

Travelling and meeting successful people who can crush it at work but still fall into disappointing relationship patterns– something became painfully clear.Many high achievers I speak to unconsciously get into relationships expecting their partners to resolve their...

It Changed Everything

I want to tell you about the moment that things clicked for me. I'd been running my business for years— Building a solid reputation. Getting great results with clients. Making decent money. But I was exhausted. And resentful. And secretly terrified that if I stopped...

I Thought I Was Only An Avoidant

Yesterday I shared how I healed my avoidant attachment in relationships—Only to discover I was anxiously attached to my clients. Had a bunch of replies asking:"How do I know which pattern I'm running in my business?" Great question so I thought I’d share Because...

I Thought I Was Healed

After spending years healing my avoidant attachment in romantic relationships—somatic therapy, shadow work, nervous system regulation, the whole deal— I finally got to a place where I could actually stay. I was no longer making mental lists of my partner's faults. I...

My Wife Left Me. Here’s Why I Thank Her Now

I asked him what was different now– (After the somatic work, after facing what he'd been avoiding his whole life.) "I believe in myself now. I feel stronger inside. I love myself." He'd never been able to say that before. But here's what got me: His daughter is 11....

Why You Silence Your Emotions (And How It’s Holding You Back)

Think back to childhood. Recall if you’ve ever been told:"Don’t cry," or "Stop being so sensitive"…Maybe even, “that didn’t happen.”It’s a subtle, but deeply painful cut to a sensitive soul. Many high achievers I work withgrew up in family systems where certain...

The Only 2 Things A Great Relationship Requires

I had the pleasure of working with a successful millionaire entrepreneur this yearwho has been able to turn her toxic relationship around, and I can say with conviction that this is what I mean when I say healthy relationships ONLY require 2 things: Self-Awareness +...

Even Though She Stole From Her…

If you’re a leader who wants to grow, Here’s how to avoid this same mistake. I had a client earlier this year—we'll call her Denise—who runs a seven-figure company. Successful. Driven. Making more money than most people dream about. And completely numb to the fact...

For Anxious Attached Only

I'm doing market research for something new I'm launching,and I want to offer a trade. If this doesn't apply to you — disregard this message. THIS OFFER IS FOR THE RIGHT PERSON. See if this resonates: You can run a team, close deals,solve complex problems at work that...