Everyone talks about finding the right person,But what if the real story isn't about who we're choosing—it's about why we keep choosing them?See if this resonates: You start out feeling alive, magnetic, and in sync—only for things to spiral into power struggles,...
It’s not easy to admit this,but there was a time in my life when I was stuck in a never-ending nightmare. My previous relationship was a rollercoaster of intensity.The highs of passion and the lows of volatility were way too close to each other.We loved hard, and we...
What if everything we do to fix relationships doesn't work…because we're solving the wrong problem? Think about it: The books. The workshops. The couples therapy. The communication techniques. They all promise answers. But something's still missing. Despite the...
Every broken heart tells two stories. The one we see on the surface– the arguments, the distance, the painful endings. But there’s a deeper story underneath… the one our pain is desperately trying to tell us. And something amazing happens when we listen... First, see...
The most dangerous lie in relationships:That we're fighting about what we're fighting about. Simply put: it’s never about what it’s about. The disagreement, the argument,the snapping and defensiveness…It’s just the tip of the iceberg. What’s really happening is...
The same relationship story plays out millions of times every day. Two people meet. The connection feels magical. Then slowly, old patterns start creeping in… Conflict.Disconnection.Disappointment. Time after time, until doubt takes root. Is it them?Is it because we...
In my last blog post I talked about the myth of fairy tale romances… Here’s another reason they’re so dangerous. From an early age, we're told stories about finding 'the one.' The perfect person who finally makes everything better. Someone who “gets” us in ways no one...
Think about the idea of a “fairy tale romance.” You may know the story - two people meet and sparks fly.They “complete” each other.Love flows effortlessly and nothing ever goes wrong. Sounds wonderful. But here’s the part we don’t hear: Fairy tale romance only works...
I used to hate Valentine's Day. See if this sounds familiar: For years, Valentine’s Day wasn’t just disappointing;it was soul-crushing.It seemed like everyone around me had figured out love,while I was left picking up the pieces of another failed...
