Relationship Polarity & Magnetism:

Everyone dreams of the perfect relationship:

that naturally occurring, magnetic chemistry where you fit like two puzzle pieces, and you can’t keep your hands off each other.

But when reality turns out to be something else entirely – when you’re constantly on edge, routinely arguing, and physically repelled from each other (like two of the same pole of a magnet) instead of pulled to one another like the opposite side of magnets – you can’t help but wonder what’s missing.

Why can’t you have the relationship you’ve been craving?

This is the nuance of Polarity. The answer lies in the clashing energy you and your partner each have. When it comes to building a truly irresistible, magnetic connection, opposites really DO attract.

If you’re constantly irritated with your partner, feeling repelled instead of attracted, or stuck in a cycle of criticism and blame, you might be lacking the essential element of polarity– think of two positive poles repelling one another.

Polarity is the dynamic energetic difference between masculine and feminine energies that creates magnetism and attraction (or repulsion) in relationships. When this balance is off, partners often find themselves clashing instead of connecting.

The best part is that with the right understanding– no matter what the other side has got going on– you get to choose what you’re putting out.

What Is Relationship Polarity? And why does it matter?

Relationship polarity is grounded in the dynamic INSTINCTUAL interaction of masculine and feminine energies. It’s not about defining gender roles. It’s about recognizing and honoring the differences that create attraction and magnetism.

Plain and simple.

Here’s how it works:

When these energies are balanced, they complement each other, creating a powerful dynamic that enhances intimacy and connection. However, societal conditioning and personal wounding often disrupt this balance, leading to repulsion and conflict.

On one hand we have these inherent desires. On the other hand we see them as shameful.

What a mess we have made.

When talking about masculine and feminine energy, most people assume we’re talking about stereotypical gender roles.

But an electric masculine-feminine dynamic is NOT about forcing yourself into a culturally-assigned box. In fact, it’s not even about whether you’re a man or a woman.

Any person, of any gender, can embody masculine or feminine energy. Relationship polarity is the art of understanding it and consciously choosing where you want to do the dance. Leaning into the embracing of the way those differences combine to create balance.

On the other hand, if you both fall on the feminine end of the scale, you’re probably just as frustrated – each wishing the other would take charge, and feeling like you’re forced to be responsible for everything.

“I just wish he would step up,” is what she would say when she’s tired of the responsibility.

“I don’t want to have to be in charge,” is what he would say when his masculine instincts are off-line.

Polarizing masculine and feminine energy are the key to a healthy balance in two people who are consciously choosing to do the dance. If your energy is feminine, you’ll feel cared for, cherished, and attracted to a masculine partner far more than you ever would a feminine one. The same works in reverse if your energy is masculine– you’ll crave the softer, more respectful, less controlling and more radiant partner.

Not only does polarity create this balance – it creates mind-blowing intimacy.

Reignite the Spark in Your Relationship