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Dr. Nima

Is Your Partner Your Parent?

“I think I married my mother/father”. If only I had a nickel for every time I heard this in my DM’s from people stuck in a “should I stay or go?” situation in their relationships. I talk to so many people who swear they don’t want to become like their parents, or they...

What It Truly Takes To Change

I just got off a call with a woman who was stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere. She wanted help. The truth? She wanted MY help to change HIM. Respectfully, that’s not how it works. Everyone wants change,but what I’ve discovered helping people overcome...

The Link Between Chronic Illness And Unresolved Attachment Trauma

Have you ever noticed a pattern in your life? A pattern with choosing the same type of people in relationships. A pattern of not being able to say “no” and exhausting yourself. A pattern of pushing people away when they get too close. Whatever the pattern may be, I’ve...

A Warning To Men

After working with hundreds of women, hearing their stories, and working with men who’s wives have had enough…   I felt inspired to share this message as a public service announcement of the 4 Trauma Responses we are responsible for learning how to regulate if we are...

What Love, Sxx, and Money Have in Common

This one made me extremely uncomfortable to share.   Here I was, in the middle of one of the most fun and effortless interviews I’ve ever done with my friend, the host of the Expansive CEO podcast, Hannah Chapman,and then I asked for her consent to go into a topic...

This One Will Be A Spicy One

Masterclass #2: UNPACKING and PREVENTING INFIDELITY Is the relationship Salvageable? Understanding the Impact of Polarity and Our Sexual Shadows In the raw aftermath of infidelity, a cloud of confusion, pain, and mistrust hangs heavy. The question at the forefront of...

Sxxless Relationship: The Silent Struggle

I'm no stranger to Facebook's algorithmic iron fist. I just got shadowbanned for talking about this– which is why I had to think outside the box. A topic as poignant as this deserves a dedicated space. I’ll tell you what I came up with to solve this-- at the end.  ...

The Impact Of My Sxxual Shadows On My Relationships

Last week, during the kickoff of my signature Overview Experience,I found myself candidly sharing a deeply personal experience.It's not often that I delve into such vulnerable topic— which are my sxxual shadows, but I felt compelled to discuss my past -a past marred...

Women With Men Who Watch P0rn

This was the question recently asked in our fb community, evoking deep, personal responses. A particular reflection from one woman stood out about her challenge with sxx.   “Competing with p0rn and the unrealistic expectations from men engrossed in it is overwhelming....