Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

Our Resistance To Healing

It’s time for some real talk. After countless calls with the people who have been consuming my content,  reaching out for help in their current situation, I want to share with you what I wish I could say to them— but usually don’t, because let’s face it, the truth can...

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5 Common Traits in 30 Alpha Boss Women Struggling in Love

Over the past few weeks, I spoke to more than 30 women who identified as successful in work,(Bossbabes, if you will) who "didn’t need a man” to take care of them.Even though they considered themselves independent,many of them tearfully shared with mesome of the...

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The link between Codependency and Chronic Illness

Your face will say it all. Do you brace?Are you wearing a “mask?” Fawning, people pleasing, and codependencyare behavioral responses to stress in relationships. It’s a reflection of who we think we areand what we feel we deserve in life. And when your photo is taken,...

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WHAT IS THIS SORCERY?

“Should I stay or go” situations always begin with complaints about the partner.   “They’re a Narcissist.” “They’re emotionally immature”.   In helping people find clarity on this really frustrating issue, the biggest challenge is helping people put down the...

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How Anxiety Creates Repulsion

(Real names used with permission).   A familiar name slid into my DM’s, this time she was introducing me to her partner, Greg.   Sophia and I worked together 5 years ago, but this time, late April 2024, as many of my clients and students do, she had a desire for Greg...

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Dysregulation – What My Triggers Were Costing Me

Think about the areas of your life that cause the most dysregulation:   Toxic relationship patterns Workplace stress and unfulfillment Health crises   Now get your pen out. Whenever I guide people through the exercise I’m about to share, the results are often quite...

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Answering the Polarity Controversy

A commenter on a post said: “I feel like all this masculine/feminine talk is leading down a toxic pathwhere people are misinterpreting the whole concept to suppress women further.” If you have struggled with maintaining attraction in a secure relationship dynamic,then...

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Why She Resists The Concept Of Polarity

(And how her romantic life is a perfect demonstration of it — 4 minutes read) “What’s your take on Polarity?” an influencer I follow asked on a social media post. The screen shots posted are her response in the thread.He was trying to educate the masses on how...

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