Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

Rewiring Your Patterns Does This

What would you do if your partner who you loveddidn’t want to have s∊x with you? Option #1: Feel hurt, rejected, pine after them, beg, plead Option #2: Do option #1 then decide to leave and move on. Joe decided to do option #1— which was to do option 1 in hopesthat...

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Anyone can Become Locked in a Trauma Bond – Even Me

Anyone can become locked in a trauma bond – even me.   For 43 years, I kept finding myself in the same relationship over and over again: a relationship defined by insecurity, constant cycles of conflict and making up, and a strong desire to be “completed” by each...

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A Man’s Two Greatest Fears In Relationships

If you’re a man, or you’re in a relationship with a man, you’re wise to learn about the two fundamental fears every man contends with in relationships.   P.S. Remember, the end of a trauma bond isn't just an ending; it's the beginning of a journey back to your true...

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Being Self-Centered vs Not Giving a F###

A participant of my recent 3 hour training on Fawninghad a few questions that arose.She’s in a “should I stay or go” situationand has been consuming my contentand has now begun her pathway to creating a secure relationship. Here are some more questions: What happens...

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REAL TALK ABOUT GOING FROM TRAUMA BONDED…. TO THIS

(4 minute read)   Look at these two faces in this picture. They are my light. My relationship with these two precious beings is my life’s greatest accomplishment.   But it wasn’t always this way.   I used to be stuck in a Trauma Bond, and without even knowing it– that...

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Confronting Your Inner Perpetrator

In the silent corridors of our hearts,where the echoes of conflict reside, you find yourself weary. Arguments get volatile, The endless cycle of walking on eggshells, the back-and-forth bickering, the invalidation, what feels like gaslighting during every argument—  ...

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Healing Your Nervous System Can Save Your Life

A ruptured attachment can be lethal. In the last 3 years, I’ve had several participants send me DM’safter they attended one of my events to tell me “Thank you. I wanted to end my life before this….this was my last hope. I had already made the plans.I can now let...

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Healing Enmeshment Trauma

I just had a frustrated commenter (Carol) on my facebook page.   She said “I could care less about having a relationshit”.  It’s not worth the BS and the hoop jumping, and the fact that no one cares about boundaries. Single is peace.”   I just wanted to jump through...

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