Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

How to Navigate the Anxious Avoidant Cycle

The anxious-avoidant cycle can get exhausting.When two parties aren’t trigger-proof, things can get heated. In secure relationships, boundary violations are handledelegantly. Not so elegant when the "two anxieties” of unconscious polarityare at play. Let me explain....

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A New Lens For Forgiveness

(Name changed to respect privacy and anonymity) (4 minute read).   Amy was tired of feeling like a victim. Divorced with children,  running a business,  she was still walking around with a great deal of resentment.    She had done YEARS of therapy,  plant medicines,...

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Why She Wants to Leave You (Even if You’re Rich)

Women initiate 70% of divorces. After speaking to these women, I discovered 3 reasons why. She’s fed up.She’s tired.She’s feeling alone (even if you’ve been married for decades). I’ve even spoken to women who confessed they were wanting to have an affair. If you’re a...

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Our Resistance To Healing

It’s time for some real talk. After countless calls with the people who have been consuming my content,  reaching out for help in their current situation, I want to share with you what I wish I could say to them— but usually don’t, because let’s face it, the truth can...

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5 Common Traits in 30 Alpha Boss Women Struggling in Love

Over the past few weeks, I spoke to more than 30 women who identified as successful in work,(Bossbabes, if you will) who "didn’t need a man” to take care of them.Even though they considered themselves independent,many of them tearfully shared with mesome of the...

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The link between Codependency and Chronic Illness

Your face will say it all. Do you brace?Are you wearing a “mask?” Fawning, people pleasing, and codependencyare behavioral responses to stress in relationships. It’s a reflection of who we think we areand what we feel we deserve in life. And when your photo is taken,...

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WHAT IS THIS SORCERY?

“Should I stay or go” situations always begin with complaints about the partner.   “They’re a Narcissist.” “They’re emotionally immature”.   In helping people find clarity on this really frustrating issue, the biggest challenge is helping people put down the...

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How Anxiety Creates Repulsion

(Real names used with permission).   A familiar name slid into my DM’s, this time she was introducing me to her partner, Greg.   Sophia and I worked together 5 years ago, but this time, late April 2024, as many of my clients and students do, she had a desire for Greg...

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