Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

If you’ve ever wanted to change your relationship, and your partner wasn’t on board…    pay close attention.   Constant arguments, feeling gaslit, having your emotions invalidated.   When you give feedback— they jump and become defensive and tell you why you’re wrong....

(and why it's so important for your children that you do it)   Her eyes gazed downward, and her face held the look of sadness.   This one moment of conflict created a fork in the road that would determine how the rest of the weekend was going to go for us. “Tell me...

On this transmission I share the one reason why familes crumble during the holiday season, and by doing this one thing you can transform Insecure (anxious) patterns and turn them into secure ones.   Hint: They’re part of the same issue. Share in the comments what...

On this training I share why divorces and breakups happen so commonly. Learning this one skill in conflicts I cover on this video is the foundation of being a secure. When you get this right, your status rises with your maturity level. It’s not what you think. WHEN...

Why do you think that 80% of divorce is initiated by women?   If you’ve ever been in a “should I stay or go” situation, check this story out.   Frank’s wife Janet said “I’m done. I need you to leave.”   After an infidelity was caught 7 years prior, their relationship...

Ever wondered what is causing relationship frustration that pushes you further away from secure attachment? The main root cause of anxious attachment? The main root cause of your avoidant tendencies? I cover it, as well as what needs to be done about it on this...

I admit I get a little worked up over this topic.I can’t help it.   20 years as a Chiropractor, and now as a Facilitatorhelping people through Trauma Bonds and attachment wounds,divorce, breakup etc….   The medical system is broken when dealing with emotional issues....

“The insecure person is fearful and prone to jealousy, clinging, possessiveness, and attachment in relationships, an approach that always brings frustration. The purpose of these feelings is to bind and tightly possess the other, to achieve security by preventing loss...

“We have been together for 10 years and we are stuck having the same argument over and over. We love each other, we are just building resentments over time and it seems like I’m getting the validation I need from the Therapist, but nothing is changing. Is there any...