Embodied Feminine Radiance

Written By Dr. Nima

On April 7, 2023

The moment I met her, I could feel there was something different about her.

It was in her smile.
That smile knocked me right off my feet.

It was as though you could FEEL her soul in her smile.

I didn’t understand what it was at the time– I didn’t have words for it.

I just knew it was rare.

After putting my focus in going into higher levels of awareness,
of healing from Trauma,
of Integrating all the cognitive and somatic tools
of moving from Insecure Attachments to Secure Attachments… of working to master the dance
of Masculine/Feminine Polarity…

What had me weak at the knees and powerless to resist:

Her Feminine Radiance.
It’s the type of Radiance that is only rarely seen…

From someone who isn’t constrained by her past–
She’s embraced it.

From someone who truly KNOWS her worth…
She humbly owns it.

From someone who can make her man feel loved and adored…

Simply with her PRESENCE.

No pushing. No forcing. No leading.

No coercive games with an agenda to “get”.


From the moment I met her, I knew she was different.

It was a dark time for me, and my opinion of women WAS NOT GOOD based on what I had previously experienced.

I swore I would never get married again.

I was avoidant– until I met her.

For the first time EVER, I had no doubt— and was inspired to provide her with anything and EVERYTHING she needs and desires.

If you HAVE met her– you already know what I’m talking about.

If you haven’t met her– You’re missing out.
But I’m sure you can catch a glimpse of what I’m talking about in these pictures.

Her Radiance softened me, and because of that,
My life has been blessed with a precious gift…
A love I have never experienced before with a woman,
and a son who is teaching me what it means to love without condition.

It’s a Radiance that helped me break free from the darkest depths into the greatest light.

It’s why I call her “My Sunshine”.

April 7th is the day my Sunshine was born.
If you took a moment to watch this— Would you please help me acknowledge my favourite human on her birthday?
Diana joon I love you with all my heart.
May this 42nd trip around the sun be the most special one of all…

And It’s only going to get better.
I love you babe.
I promise to continue to keep doing whatever it takes to keep you shining your light.❤️

1 Comment

  1. Vanessa

    that’s a beautiful tribute Nima.
    I call my life enhancing person my ray of sunshine too! (his name is Ray)
    he has shown me new ways to see the world, and supports our growth
    There’s a lot in ‘the way’ we do and express things, and I have plenty of work to do on that topic
    Thank you for sharing knowledge and experience


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