A participant of my recent 3 hour training on Fawning
had a few questions that arose.
She’s in a “should I stay or go” situation
and has been consuming my content
and has now begun her pathway to creating a secure relationship.
Here are some more questions:
What happens when you try to finally set boundaries,
and then get blamed, criticized, and rejected back for it?
How do you know if you’re reading your body correctly,
somatically, and it’s not just an emotion/feeling?
How many people are actually in secure relationships,
or are secure people?
Why does it feel like I had a secure relationship with my dad but when he passed away,
I became more insecure and avoidant.
This woman is also persian so there were some great
cultural insights I wanted to share for anyone feeling frustrated
and anxious in relationships, and how culture and family systems shape relationships.
If you’re ready to end the Trauma Bond merry go round
so you can attract a pattern that is fulfilling, juicy, and magnetic,
Watch this training and let me know what arises for you.
Your wingman on the adventure,
Nima