I just got off a call with a woman who was stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere.
She wanted help.
The truth?
She wanted MY help to change HIM.
Respectfully, that’s not how it works.
Everyone wants change,
but what I’ve discovered helping people overcome trauma bonds,
push/pull dynamics and attracting relationships that feel like the same type of person
avoidant partners who can’t commit, or narcissistic children who need a parent….
Most people are too ashamed to look in a mirror— at their own peril.
As a result, they go decades frustrated in the world of relationships
wondering if they are going to die alone, not claimed (as a woman)
not ever respected and followed (as a man),
knowing that life itself isn’t experienced with full magic unless and until
the mystery of relationships gets solved.
I felt the exact same way.
I realized that SOMETHING had to change.
My relationship to myself.
My reactivity.
MY SENSE OF SELF WORTH.
It all needed an upgrade.
When I did,
my relationships transformed, I became Trigger-Proof,
(not trigger-LESS!)
and I met my person.
And did what I was never able to do before:
Become a dad.
Have a family.
And get out of the exhaustive cycle of trauma bonds
and insecure attachments, wanting love, but too afraid to commit
because of unresolved pain.
This is your birthright.
This video goes over the PROCESS that change requires,
so you might see where you're at on the spectrum of change.
Tell me what this video brings up for you.
Your wingman on this adventure,
Nima
