it sounded like the magic bullet.
Masculine. Feminine.
Polarity equals attraction, right?
Except, what if your relationship feels more like “push-pull” chaos
or pretending to be someone you’re not
just to keep the peace?
Here’s the truth no one tells you:
will keep you stuck.
You can learn all the scripts and strategies for “leaning back” or “leading,”
but if your attachment wounds and unconscious patterns are running the show,
you’ll keep sabotaging the very connection you want.
And here’s the kicker:
If the person teaching you hasn’t lived it themselves,
it’s not going to work.
You can’t teach polarity from a place of disconnection.
If they aren’t in a relationship built on trust, safety, and magnetism—
especially after they have had children together--
what are they modeling for you?
The people you follow must EMBODY the work.
I’ve lived this. I used to teach from a dis-embodied place.
We’ve created a sanctuary of connection, desire, and shared vision—
not by chasing or fawning,
and can handle each other telling it like it is.
If you want a secure, magnetic relationship,
You need someone who’s walked the path.
Take Amy, for example.
At 43, she was in a relationship that felt like a constant loop of reactivity.
She wore the mask of people-pleasing so reflexively
she didn’t even realize it anymore.
She desperately wanted her partner to see her—
but the thought of truly being seen terrified her.
She found herself thinking:
“If they really see me, they’ll realize I’m not enough.”
So she stayed behind her mask.
She avoided the hard conversations.
She fawned, abandoned her own needs, and let resentment build.
Meanwhile, her partner, who carried his own childhood wounds,
picked up on her inauthenticity and felt unsafe.
Their dynamic became a volatile cycle of triggers and disconnection.
Does any of this sound familiar?
Maybe you:
These patterns don’t just cost you your relationships.
Zero emotional safety— zero attraction and magnetism.
They drain your energy, your self-worth, and your happiness.
They leave you feeling stuck in the same loop, year after year,
wondering why no matter how much you try, nothing changes.
It’s not your fault.
But it is your responsibility to change it.
And here’s the good news:
Just like these patterns didn’t start overnight,
The very fact that you’re reading this means
you’re already searching for change.
You’re here because
you don’t just want to cope with your relationships.
You want to transform them.
And the truth is,
you don’t have to stay stuck in the loop.
When you heal the attachment wounds driving your patterns,
when you learn to feel safe in your body,
and when you develop the emotional fitness
to hold boundaries with grace—
everything changes.
This isn’t about following the latest polarity trend
It’s about becoming the kind of person who radiates security,
The kind of person who no longer needs to chase love—
because they naturally attract it.
When you find the right guide—
someone who’s walked this path and lives what they teach—
you gain more than tools.
You gain confidence that it’s possible.
You stop doubting whether you’re too broken to change.
You stop wondering if love is out of reach for you.
You realize you’re capable of creating secure,
the kind that feel like sanctuary, not struggle.
They’re often hiding in plain sight,
career, and even how you treat yourself.
Breaking free starts with clarity—
and understanding what needs to shift.
So what do you get from a Blind Spot Session?
This is not another therapy session
where someone listens passively
and validates your pain without giving you tools for change.
It’s a transformative 30 minutes designed
to uncover the truth of what’s keeping you stuck.
Here’s what we’ll do:
You’ll see why certain dynamics
keep repeating in your life and relationships—
and how to stop them.
Maybe it’s the fear of being seen.
Maybe it’s a cycle of people-pleasing
that’s left you disconnected from yourself.
Together, we’ll pinpoint the root cause.
You’ll leave with clarity on what needs to change
whether it’s reclaiming your voice,
rebuilding trust, or setting boundaries with confidence.
I’ll show you how to stop chasing
and start attracting the connection you deserve.
For example:
In a recent session,
I worked with a woman who couldn’t understand
why she kept settling for relationships she didn’t truly want.
She realized she was choosing men who pursued her aggressively
because their certainty felt soothing to her anxious attachment.
But deep down, she knew she was abandoning herself by staying.
The blind spot?
Once we uncovered this,
she could finally focus on healing the wound
that kept her seeking external validation.
This isn’t about blame—it’s about freedom.
When you uncover your blind spots, you take back your power.
You stop living on autopilot, repeating patterns you never chose.
If you’re ready to break free from the loop of doom—
to stop chasing, fawning, and overthinking your way through relationships—
this is your chance.
I’m offering a free Blind Spot Session (normally $497)
to help you uncover the unconscious patterns keeping you stuck
and give you a path to secure, authentic connection.
Here’s how to qualify:
Finish with, “Nima, can I get your private calendar link?”
Let’s make 2025 the year you become Trigger-Proof,
show up authentically, and create the relationships
you’ve been inspired to create (but don’t have the roadmap yet.)
Your guide on the journey,
Nima
