Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

On this training I share why divorces and breakups happen so commonly. Learning this one skill in conflicts I cover on this video is the foundation of being a secure. When you get this right, your status rises with your maturity level. It’s not what you think. WHEN...

Why do you think that 80% of divorce is initiated by women?   If you’ve ever been in a “should I stay or go” situation, check this story out.   Frank’s wife Janet said “I’m done. I need you to leave.”   After an infidelity was caught 7 years prior, their relationship...

Ever wondered what is causing relationship frustration that pushes you further away from secure attachment? The main root cause of anxious attachment? The main root cause of your avoidant tendencies? I cover it, as well as what needs to be done about it on this...

I admit I get a little worked up over this topic.I can’t help it.   20 years as a Chiropractor, and now as a Facilitatorhelping people through Trauma Bonds and attachment wounds,divorce, breakup etc….   The medical system is broken when dealing with emotional issues....

“The insecure person is fearful and prone to jealousy, clinging, possessiveness, and attachment in relationships, an approach that always brings frustration. The purpose of these feelings is to bind and tightly possess the other, to achieve security by preventing loss...

“We have been together for 10 years and we are stuck having the same argument over and over. We love each other, we are just building resentments over time and it seems like I’m getting the validation I need from the Therapist, but nothing is changing. Is there any...

“I think I married my mother/father”. If only I had a nickel for every time I heard this in my DM’s from people stuck in a “should I stay or go?” situation in their relationships. I talk to so many people who swear they don’t want to become like their parents, or they...

I just got off a call with a woman who was stuck in a relationship that was going nowhere. She wanted help. The truth? She wanted MY help to change HIM. Respectfully, that’s not how it works. Everyone wants change,but what I’ve discovered helping people overcome...

Have you ever noticed a pattern in your life? A pattern with choosing the same type of people in relationships. A pattern of not being able to say “no” and exhausting yourself. A pattern of pushing people away when they get too close. Whatever the pattern may be, I’ve...