The 2 Blind Spots Of Co-Dependents

Written By Dr. Nima

On December 25, 2022
Co-dependency patterns are said to be impossible to break by the experts.
That’s true– because conventional methods don’t work.
With a deep commitment, breaking the unconscious bonds we have towards our Trauma is possible.
The problem is– even though we want freedom from the pain of Co-Dependency, on the other side– we crave the familiar, and even though we want out of the pain, without exposing these two MASSIVE blind spots I share, we will find ourselves succumbing to an identity that kills our ability to have a secure relationship.

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Tamar
Tamar
1 year ago

I totally understand I’ve been in this situation for a long time and really want to try break free from it going into the new year

Nima Rahmany
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1 year ago
Reply to  Tamar

How do you plan on doing that?

Lois
Lois
1 year ago

Good work.
Back yourself and set your boundaries.

Linda
Linda
1 year ago

Please send

H.H.
H.H.
1 year ago

I honestly don’t even know how I got to your page. I guess ads did their job or I was listening to something that then went to your video and I’m glad it did! I love the idea of confluence and I’m really interested in listening to you more. I may even actually message and tell you I’m ready. Some things you said made me think, “That is what I’ve tried to tell therapists I’m ready for!” I’ve talked to many, but they just usually tell me I make sense and allow me to pay them to agree with me… Read more »

Nima Rahmany
Admin
1 year ago
Reply to  H.H.

I hear that a lot. Our work is radically different because it uses the somatic experience.

Frances
Frances
1 year ago

Im trying to understand and do the work.

Nima Rahmany
Admin
1 year ago
Reply to  Frances

make sure you find a guide and community container to help you.

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