Blog Articles by Dr. Nima

The moment I met her, I could feel there was something different about her. It was in her smile. That smile knocked me right off my feet. It was as though you could FEEL her soul in her smile. I didn't understand what it was at the time-- I didn't have words for it. I...

Think about your relationship to physical and emotional pain. Do you keep trying to avoid it— only to find yourself in it constantly?   How has your relationship to pain impacted your life?   Being a bit of a freak— I find myself thinking about this stuff.   I’ve...

Tell me if you can relate to this. I was 43 years old when I realized I had it all wrong. Growing up with the values instilled in me,I thought I had to prove my worth in the world with success. In 2010 when I climbed that mountain and reached what I would have...

What is it that you’re not stepping into action for? Where are you dragging your feet?   What is sitting there unwritten, unresolved, un-expressed within you?   Chances are, you’re stopped by “perfection anxiety”— better known as PERFECTIONISM.   If you’ve ever...

We all are wanting to create homes where it feels like a sanctuary to be there. Where relationships feel nourishing.    It wasn’t until my last one ended, and I was all alone at the age of 43, living with my dog, looking in the mirror…   I felt called to finally face...

If you’ve ever felt frustration on your healing journey,there’s a good reason.   It’s because your expectations are likely in fantasy land.   The perfectionistic parts that are deathly afraid of “failure” love to show up on your journey towards healing your attachment...

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU’RE HEALING? (I’ll tell you how by the end).   ------ The reason why you’re receiving this message is you found your way on my email list because you were curious about evolving yourself.   An attachment-style quiz, an article, or perhaps it was...

It appears there’s a blind spot that might be impacting your ability to have healthy relationships.   I don’t mean to make assumptions about you— especially if we haven’t personally met before. It’s just that this seems to be constraining 100% of every person who’s...

I don’t mean to be rude when I say this.  It’s meant more as a wake up call when I’m speaking to my clients,  who’ve been searching for answers to the most pressing questions:   Why don’t my relationships work? Why am I attracted to the same types of partners who...