Which One Of These Are You Choosing

Written By Dr. Nima

On July 11, 2023

If you’ve ever found yourself lost in a maze, looking for outside approval,

you’re in good company.

I noticed a common thread in everyone’s story who has ever reached out

looking for help with their challenging relationship patterns.

Listening to their stories of relationship distress, the “upstream” root cause was (mostly) all the same.

I even found a correlation with this very issue and Chronic health issues, like fatigue, digestive, and hormonal issues.

After seeing these patterns come up again and again,

I decided to make the switch and leave clinical practice and teach people how to solve it at it’s root.

In working with thousands of people from over a dozen countries, I’ve noticed

we all want to feel fulfilled in relationships with others, feel complete with our past, doing work that is fulfilling and meaningful, and connected to a purpose that’s greater than us.

All the while feeling safe in our skin.

I’ve lived long enough to see that without these, we don’t have much to look forward to.

and the challenges of life become too distressing… we lack resilience, life becomes depressing,

and our health takes a nose-dive as anxiety takes over.

It wasn’t until I was faced with paralyzing anxiety and recurring Insecure relationship patterns to help me see

that the outcomes in my life weren’t my FAULT —

but they were 100% due to the fact that I was CONDITIONED to abandon myself in service of having approval and belonging.

I didn’t even know it, but it’s how I was unconsciously living my life.

Anxiety was the messenger letting me know of the GAP between the “Authentic Me”

and the person I confabulated in order to feel successful, important, and worthy of love.

I believe we all have been put in the same situation without even being aware of it.

And I can almost guarantee that the problems that are keeping you up at night

have the very same “upstream” cause,

even if they show up as A Narcissistic partner or Boss you feel is in the way of your happiness,

or a Chronic condition you can’t figure out,

or a kid who’s dealing with problems at school.

When I realized they all come from the same source,

I began showing people how I did it… and continue to expand in all areas.

Deep down, your soul yearns to express itself creatively, to love and be loved unconditionally,

and to be doing what you love, where you love, with whom you love, feeling safe in your body.

the biggest obstacle is those old conditioned patterns, the little voice in your head you’ve inherited

from people who themselves chose attachment over their OWN authentic voice.

Your healing and fulfilment in relationships (and work) will depend

on your ability to access that Inner Knowing you lost in your quest to please others.

When you finally get that process right,

everything changes.

If you’re ready to find how to make the Voice and the Vision on the INSIDE

louder and more profound than opinions on the outside,

and heal, and transform your relationships, and be an example to your children,

Join us at our very next live event,
(click HERE to see upcoming events.)

Or reach out and let us know exactly where you want to be in the next few months,

and we’ll point you in the right direction.

See you at the next perfect time.

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