For Anxious Attached Only

I'm doing market research for something new I'm launching,
and I want to offer a trade.

If this doesn't apply to you — disregard this message.

THIS OFFER IS FOR THE RIGHT PERSON.

See if this resonates:

You can run a team, close deals,
solve complex problems at work that others can't even touch.

People respect your opinion.
You make decisions that affect dozens or hundreds of people.
Professionally, you’re doing quite well.

But when it comes to love... everything shifts.

You feel like you're "too much."
You're always the one chasing.
Always waiting.
Always worried they're going to leave, cheat, or find someone better.

Maybe you've been betrayed before,
and that fear lives in your chest now.

A constant tightness that never fully goes away.

You keep attracting (or are in a relationship with)
the same unavailable energy —
distant people who make you work for scraps of attention.

And the harder you try to connect,
the further they pull away.

It's maddening because your professional superpowers
are actually relationship kryptonite.

The strategic thinking that makes you successful at work
turns into obsessive overthinking about every text message.

The persistence that built your career
becomes desperate chasing that repels the very connection you crave.

The caring nature that makes you a great leader
shows up as anxious,
overwhelming energy that repels and makes people want to run.

Here's what I'm researching:

How successful people's work strategies completely backfire in relationships.

And more specifically —
how there's a blind spot in your own energy that you can't see,
but it's attracting the exact mirror of what you don't want.

The same avoidant patterns you despise in others
are actually living in your shadow, creating this endless loop.

Most high achievers can't see this about themselves,
even though they can spot every red flag in someone else.

Over the last year,
I've worked with dozens of successful professionals
who finally broke this pattern.

They stopped seeking external validation for their self-worth.
They stopped believing they were "too much."
They became willing to walk away
from connections that weren't aligned —
without trying so hard to prove their worth.

That shift in energy was a game changer for them.

The same people who used to ignore their texts
started chasing them.

The avoidant patterns they kept attracting
suddenly had no place to land.

Like they'd been speaking a language that repelled love,
and finally learned to speak one that attracted it.

So here's my trade:

I'll give you a blind spot audit —
from someone who understands both the successful achiever mindset
AND the relationship patterns that keep you stuck.

I'll look at your communication patterns,
your relationship history, whatever you want to show me.

And I'll share the specific energy you're putting out that's creating this loop,
plus what needs to shift to break it.

In exchange, I want 30-45 minutes of your time to understand:

• How your professional success strategies are sabotaging your love life

• The specific patterns that keep showing up with avoidant partners

• What you've already tried that hasn't worked

• What it actually feels like to be "too much"
  in a world where you're used to being "just right"

This is for you if:

You're successful professionally but feel powerless in relationships.
You're tired of being the one who cares more, tries harder, waits longer.
You keep attracting people who make you prove your worth.
You want to feel chosen instead of tolerated.
You're ready to stop chasing and start attracting.

There's no catch, no cost — just a mutually beneficial conversation.

But only if you fit this specific profile.

Your wingman on the adventure,
Nima